I know my thoughts don’t make sense
but I can’t stop them.

Even when you recognize that your behaviors or thoughts are excessive, stopping them can feel nearly impossible.

What is OCD?

OCD is an anxiety disorder marked by obsessions (distressing, repetitive thoughts) and compulsions (behaviors intended to reduce anxiety). While these behaviors may bring temporary relief, they often reinforce anxiety in the long run.

Common Obsessions:

Obsessions often center around fear, doubt, or the need for control. Examples include:

  • Contamination fears: Worrying about germs, illness, or spreading contamination to others

  • Harm-related thoughts: Fear of accidentally or intentionally hurting yourself or someone else

  • Perfectionism: Feeling an intense need for things to be “just right” or symmetrical

  • Doubt and responsibility: Worrying you made a mistake, forgot something, or caused harm

  • Religious or moral concerns (scrupulosity): Fear of offending God, sinning, or being morally “bad”

  • Intrusive taboo thoughts: Unwanted images or impulses that go against your values (e.g., sexual, violent, or blasphemous thoughts)

Common Compulsions:

Compulsions are the actions — physical or mental — that people perform to relieve anxiety caused by obsessions. Examples include:

  • Checking: Repeatedly verifying that doors are locked, appliances are off, or mistakes haven’t been made

  • Cleaning or washing: Excessive handwashing, showering, or cleaning surfaces

  • Repeating: Performing an action a certain number of times or until it “feels right”

  • Mental rituals: Silently repeating phrases, counting, or “canceling” bad thoughts with good ones

  • Reassurance seeking: Asking others for confirmation that everything is okay or that no harm was done

  • Arranging or ordering: Organizing objects until they are perfectly aligned or symmetrical

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How CBT Can Help OCD:

At Collaborative CBT, we specialize in Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP), a highly effective approach for OCD. ERP helps you gradually face feared situations or thoughts in a safe, structured way, teaching your brain that anxiety does not need to control your behavior.

Example:

If you have a fear of heights, we create a “hierarchy” of exposures, starting with something small and manageable and building up:

  • Looking at pictures of tall buildings

  • Watching a video from a high vantage point

  • Visiting a second-story balcony

  • Standing on a high building observation deck

At each step, you learn to tolerate discomfort without performing compulsive behaviors, reducing anxiety over time.

OCD shows up differently for everyone.

The key is learning to face fears, tolerate discomfort, and reduce compulsions with guidance and support.

What Does OCD Look Like?

    • Fear of germs, dirt, or illness

    • Excessive handwashing or cleaning

    • Avoiding public places, bathrooms, or certain people

    • Feeling like things must be “just right”

    • Arranging items repeatedly or in a specific pattern

    • Checking and rechecking until it feels perfect

    • Fear of accidentally harming yourself or others

    • Worrying you might act on violent thoughts

    • Compulsive checking or avoidance to prevent imagined harm

    • Intrusive sexual thoughts that feel wrong or taboo

    • Intrusive thoughts about identifying as a sexuality outside of the one you currently identify as

    • Doubting a partner’s faithfulness despite evidence

    • Seeking constant reassurance about sexual or relational behaviors

    • Obsessing over doing the “right” thing morally or religiously

    • Fear of sin or punishment

    • Compulsive rituals to feel morally “safe”

    • Superstitions (numbers, sequences)

    • Mental reviewing or repeating phrases silently

    • Needing things to feel “complete” before moving on

Take The First Step

OCD can feel overwhelming and isolating, but you don’t have to face it alone. Through CBT and ERP, we help you regain control over your thoughts and actions, reduce anxiety, and build a life where OCD no longer dictates your daily choices.

Reach out today to start your journey to freedom from OCD.

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